Meet Roberto Vento-Entrepreneur with a Big Vision for his Future

Many people are tired of working 9-5, wasting away at a job they despise, or working for someone else’s dream to come true while watching their own dreams get farther and farther out of reach.

However, Roberto Vento, 26, is out to make a change and not only is he making a difference in his own life, he is changing the lives of others as well!


Roberto was born in New York City to a large Italian family, he lived in Queens, New York, then moved back to Italy when he was 12 years old. He grew up in the ancient town of Gualdo Tadino which is in the province of Perugia in northeastern Umbria.

He moved back to the states about three years ago, first living in Chicago and he now lives in San Antonio, Texas where he currently works as a Biomedical Technician with New Vision Endoscopy.

He has a dream of making the world a better, safer place and he is on “a mission to help people escape the rat race and live life on their own terms by living the laptop style.”

A Positive Attitude and a Passion for Change

Roberto, a firm believer in the law of attraction and having a positive mindset, has been making huge strides in his online business and encourages others to join him. “I want to help everyone! Persistence is key. Know what you’re after, set goals and GRIND to make it happen!”

Roberto also has aspirations of being a motivational speaker and his love of reading motivational books, especially those by Tony Robbins, is giving him the inspiration to get started. “I really started implementing everything that I read in my day to day life and I really want to be the best I can be in anything and everything I do.” Currently he is also hosting weekly online webinars to help others find their way.

“A positive mind will always give you positive results,” says Roberto. “Don’t waste time and thoughts on what you don’t have! Instead, use that time to set goals and GRIND! So that one day you can have everything you’ve ever wanted! Because, if you think about it, that time is going to pass by anyway, it just depends on you and how you’re going to use it.”


“There is absolutely nothing we can’t achieve … everything is possible! It all comes down to HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT!”

With an amazingly optimistic attitude, the drive and determination to see his dreams come true, and a passionate and loving spirit, Roberto Vento is well on his way to achieving success. He is one to watch out for … the future is in his hands!

“It’s truly becoming an amazing journey!”

To learn more about Roberto and his business, and find out how he can help you get started too, please check out his Facebook page Roberto Vento Facebook Page


Thanks for stopping by!

♥ Lisa ♥

Lisa V. Proulx’s website



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Meet Irish Horror Writer Chris Rush

Have you ever heard of the Banshee (bean-sidhe) in Ireland?

The word Banshee means Faerie woman or woman of the Faerie mound. Many legends exist surrounding the Banshees and just how evil she is meant to be.

I admit, I didn’t know a lot about her until I meet Irish horror writer Chris Rush. we have a unique story. I met Chris and his girl Amy two years ago in Florida. They were visiting America from Ireland and Chris told me about a screenplay he was writing. I was intrigued and wanted to hear more.

I offered to help Chris get his work out there and now, two years later, his first book FOLKLORE is being released today, March 21st! I am so proud of him.

Chris lives in County Wicklow, Ireland and has been a fan of horror for as long as he can remember.FOLKLORE is his first book and he has already begun writing his next one.

I was fortunate to sit down with Chris and share his good news with you. Enjoy!




Author Chris Rush


FOLKLORE by Chris Rush released March 21

1.) When did you first realize you wanted to be a writer?

Back in the summer of 2013 I said to myself I would really like to take on the challenge of writing a horror story. So I began writing a horror screenplay. I was excited to see if I could I actually do it.

2.) What inspires you to write in the horror genre?

I have always loved horror movies and anything else horror for that matter. Anyone that knows me knows that it’s my favorite genre. If I was to say what inspires me to write horror it would be people’s reactions to it. I am always amazed witnessing people being unsettled by what they see and hear, that’s how I feel you know if you have done a good job or not. 


3.) Where do you get your ideas for your writing?

When writing I say to myself what is the best way to mess with someone’s head? I try picking something ordinary and make it terrifying. I could literally be driving, or talking to someone and an idea pops into my head and I say to myself “Yeah I’m going to use that” 

4.) Who are your favorite authors and why?

Very good question, to be honest this may sound extremely cheesy but I believe that a favorite can change over time. I believe that if someone’s work can stick in my head over time then that’s a job well done. I will never criticize anyone’s work because first of all who am I to criticize? And second of all, horror is such a broad topic that anything could be defined as horrific to any person. To answer the question, an author that stands out to me is Stephen King. I’ll be quite honest, I have read only one of his books. But why you may ask? Because he is without question one of the first authors you think of when you hear the word horror. Also in my opinion the amount of books he has written is a great accomplishment and also the amount of them that have been developed into movies speak for themselves. I feel that that is an incredible achievement that someone takes something that you have put on a page and turns it into a visual display.


5.) In your opinion, what key parts of a story make it great?

A key part for me that makes a story great is if the reader can actually relate to what they are reading. For example, if you talk about a creaking floor board in a house late at night in a story, 90% of the readers may say to themselves, “Oh crap I hear that a lot too!” Another key part of a good story in my opinion is make nothing safe. For example, things in a horror story don’t always have to happen at night – make the reader feel that it isn’t safe during the day either. Finally, description -the more descriptive the more the reader will feel it.  

6.) What activities do you do for inspiration?

When writing Folklore I had my favorite music playing in the background. I feel it can help getting the mind working. I am a huge fan of Metallica, Fear Factory, Slayer, Exodus, Alice in Chains … the list goes on!


7.) What advice would you give to others who are interested in pursuing a career in writing? 

Do it! I never thought I would be at this stage but look, I did it. It takes time and hard work but trust me it is worth every bit.

8.) What is your ultimate goal/dream concerning your writing?

My goal is without a doubt to keep writing and finding new ways to scare people. A dream would be to be considered a good horror writer by horror fans around the world.


9.) What do you want your fans to get from your writing?

In one word, scared! I want my fans to read one of my books and say, “Crap this could happen to me!” I want my fans to want to read more, which means that I first of all have to do a good job to engage them within my story. Also I want my fans to enjoy my story and believe that I did the horror genre justice.

10.) Any final thoughts?

Yes first of all thank you Lisa for all your help along my journey. I want to thank anyone that takes the time out of their day to read my story. Finally, I’m going to keep writing horror and hopefully making every single person happy (in a sense) that they actually read a book I wrote.


Thanks Chris for a great interview and congrats on your new release! I am sure this is the beginning of a long and exciting writing career for you!

Thanks Lisa and remember – my goal is to scare you as much as possible and make you second guess turning off the lights.


FOLKLORE by Chris Rush is available in ebook and paperback on US

Folklore, by Chris Rush on

Amazon UK

Folklore available on Amazon UK

Chris was recently featured in his hometown newspaper, The Wicklow News!

Chris Rush interview in The Wicklow News

Chris’ website

Official Website of Author Chris Rush

You can meet Chris at one of his book signings this year (more to follow):

June 6, 2016

The Gutter Bookshop

Temple Bar Dublin

With very special guest, bestselling American author Lisa V. Proulx

October 10, 2016

Beans In The Belfry

Brunswick, Maryland, USA

Photos from a recent experience Chris had at ScreamVention in Dublin


Chris and Kane Hodder who plays Jason in Friday the 13th


Chris and Tony Todd who plays The Candyman


Lisa V. Proulx

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Meet The Dead Files Steve DiSchiavi and hear about his new project “Blue Plate”

Hey everyone! Hope you’re enjoying your summer! It’s been a real scorcher here in Maryland and although I like the heat, it’s been a little too hot for me! Today we are on day 8 of a 12 day heat wave.

It is so hot here, I feel like I am wearing black during August in Rome (my Italian friends will get that).

I can’t believe how fast the summer is flying by. Before ya know it, we’ll be hearing Jingles Bells playing at the local Walmart.

I love this time of year and when I think of summer, I think of fireflies, porch swings, and food.

I also think about good friends and neat places to eat and that’s why I am excited to introduce you to someone special today.

He’s not only a cool cat, a happenin’ dude and an all around good guy, he’s one of my closest friends … please meet Steve DiSchiavi, co-host of The Dead Files.


Steve was kind enough to sit down with me recently and asked me to share some awesome news with you and I can’t wait to tell you all about it!

He’s doing a side gig that is funny, cool and so amazing! I am so proud of him and so happy for him too!

If you love food, love to laugh and you love Steve, you are gonna fall in love with “Blue Plate” …

A Real Blue Plate Special

It’s been said truckers know the best places to eat but that may not always be true. Truck drivers will eat where there is enough space to park their big rigs, it doesn’t necessarily mean the food is any good.

So when you’re hungry, whom can you trust to point you in the right direction?

Well, here’s what you don’t want: You don’t want to eat in a seedy part of town while you watch one of the oddball locals looking into your car. You don’t want to pay high ball prices for a sub-standard meal and service and you don’t want to eat something that looked good on the menu but ended tasting like … well the menu.

What you want is somewhere safe, you want to be served by friendly, law-abiding citizens and you may not always want a gourmet meal every time you go out. Sometimes you just gotta have a steak and a baked potato.

It’s no secret police officers know the communities they patrol. They know the streets, the people and no they don’t just eat donuts. They eat real food just like the rest of us and who better to give you a recommendation on the best local eateries than a local cop.

That’s the premise of the new online show “Blue Plate” which is hosted by the handsome and charismatic Steve DiSchiavi. Many of you may know Steve as co-host of The Dead Files on The Travel Channel and he took this side project to show his fans a funnier, lighter side to his personality. Most people don’t get to see another side to Steve but in this new online series, you do!

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“Most people think I’m this very serious guy who never laughs or cracks a smile,” says Steve, “and when I’m working, I have to be that way. I take my job very seriously. However my friends know there is another side to me and I wanted the fans to see that side too. Plus it involves one of my favorite pastimes, eating!”

The show follows Steve and his production crew of hungry men, to various cities in the United States, approaching the local boys in blue and getting the best recommendations on where to eat.

Steve, who was born and bred in Brooklyn, New York, spent 22 years as a Homicide Detective for the New York City Police Department. He is also a Marine.

As co-host of The Dead Files, he travels all over the country investigating homes and families that are plagued by terrifying paranormal circumstances. It’s in his nature to help, to rescue, to keep others safe and to be empathic toward another person. It’s a natural fit.

It’s also in his nature to be open, friendly and downright approachable with everyone he meets and the idea for “Blue Plate” is another natural fit. It suits him! Good food, good company and good times. What more could a man want?

With his sociable demeanor, he found approaching the local police quite easy. “Most of them didn’t know who I was but they were interested in helping a former police officer. They were all more than happy to get involved.”

STEVE BLUE PLATE 2“Bronco Burritos”

Steve on the lookout for the best homemade food in Galveston, Texas

The idea for the show, which is currently being shown on The Travel Channel website, came to Steve about two years ago. Traveling with the show gives him the opportunity to meet some of the coolest people and eat at some of the most amazing places. Often the production crew members turn to food apps on their phone to seek out the best food.

However Steve thought, why not ask the local police in the towns where they’re shooting for advice about the best places to eat. “Every week I’m somewhere on the road in America.”

Since he cares so deeply about his fans, he wanted to take them with him in a sense, give them an up close and personal view of the life of a retired cop, and he came up with the idea for a new show.

The name “Blue Plate” was the brainstorm of a good friend and with Steve’s idea, the show was born.

However, with all the food shows out there, what makes “Blue Plate” different? Steve explains, “It’s different because it’s not a food show about food, it’s a show about eating it! I’m not eating crazy things, I’m not preparing a gourmet meal, and I’m not a food critic. I’m just a regular Joe who enjoys a good meal. You don’t have to have deep pockets to eat decent food. Yeah, there are a million food shows out there but ‘Blue Plate’ is unique in its approach.”

Plus it’s not just a show to watch cops eat. Although I must admit, there is something kinda hot about a man in uniform eating a meal called “The Big Nasty!”🙂

STEVE BLUE PLATE 1“Louis & Pook’s”

Steve finds the best seafood restaurants in Texas by land and by sea

You’ll get a behind-the-scenes look at how the food is prepared, you’ll meet the people behind the aprons and hear local stories about these quaint out of the way places, that in some cases, you wouldn’t know was there and you would drive right by them.

Currently, only two episodes of “Blue Plate” are available for viewing and Steve hopes that will change. He also hopes the show will make it to television. “I am encouraging the fans to check them out and by gauging their responses it will give the network a good indication of its success. The more fans like it, the greater chance it has of being picked up.”

The shows are good family fun, full of “cop humor” and as Steve says, “Great for everyone to watch.” His goal is to give his fans a good laugh while exploring some of the local cop’s favorite eateries and introducing fans to some amazing dishes.

Yes, they are a hoot to watch! Trust me, you haven’t lived until you see a New York City boy eat a Cow’s Cheek Sandwich and suck the juice from the head of a crawfish deep in the heart of Texas.

In one episode, Steve is served a very large plate of delectable Cajun goodness, and is amazed at the amount of food set before him. Steve laughs and says, “I’m eating like I’m going to the chair!”

Well Steve … everything is bigger in Texas!

Steve is very grateful to his fans and is humbled by the outpouring of love he gets from them. “I appreciate all the support I get from the fans of The Dead Files and now hopefully fans of Blue Plate as well. Please let me know if you like the show and share it if you do. Thanks.”

For more information check out The Travel Channel and search “Blue Plate”

Thanks for stopping by! See ya on the flip side! Enjoy! ♥♥♥

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Lisa V. Proulx is a bestselling author of ten books, is ranked in the Top 100 Authors on Amazon Memoirs 2014 and 2015, is a Certified Life and Grief Coach and is an Inspirational Speaker.


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♥ Meet Amy Doyle ~ Irish Make-Up Artist! AmyLouiseMakeup ♥

Hi everyone! I want to introduce you to a dear friend of mine. Her name is Amy Doyle and she lives in Arklow, Ireland. Not only is she a wonderful and loving person, she is a very talented makeup artist!


Amy Doyle, Professional Makeup Artist from Ireland with AmyLouiseMakeup

I met Amy while we were both on vacation in Florida and we became instant friends.

Recently I got a chance to sit down and talk to Amy about her new business AmyLouiseMakeup.

So Amy, thanks for joining me today! I’m sure my readers would love to know more about you.

Where are you from?

“I am from an area in Ireland, called Arklow which is a town in County Wicklow on the east coast of Ireland. A little known fact is that it was founded by the Vikings in the ninth century and was the site of one of the bloodiest battles of the 1798 rebellion. It is a beautiful area!”



Sounds exciting! How long have you been interested in makeup?

“Well I’ve loved it from a very young age and have always been interested in makeup. I think it makes ya feel good when you are wearing it. I really started getting interested in makeup in my young teens and I have always worn makeup.”

Tell us about your new business, AmyLouiseMakeup.

“My AmyLouise Makeup is something I recently started. I do makeup for all occasions. Weddings, Debs, Parties, Balls, Christenings! I also do free makeup competitions to get in practice for myself. I do anything for any occasion from bridal to 1950s!”


Do you have a favorite makeup style?

“My favorite makeup would have to be the dark smoky eyes. I just love them with a set of long lashes and a pure flawless foundation.”


Do you apply makeup to men as well?

“No, just women.”

What is your dream job?

“My dream job would be to work at a makeup station or become famous and work for a superstar and on television shows!”

How can someone get in touch with you?

“My Facebook page is!/pages/AmyLouise-MakeUp/1547626405486854 or they can call me in Ireland at 0871133763.”


Thank you for joining me Amy! I wish you the best!

“Thanks Lee! I had a lot of fun and I look forward to hearing from your readers!”

Some lovely examples of Amy’s talent!

AMY dramatic winged eye liner and a golden brown smoky eye

Dramatic winged eye liner and a golden brown smoky eye

AMY 50'S

Classic 1950’s


Lovely Bridal


Soft and Natural


Amy and her baby

For more info on Amy and AmyLouiseMakeup, please check out and Like her Facebook page! ♥!/pages/AmyLouise-MakeUp/1547626405486854

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A deathbed promise fulfilled-Why I Wrote WEEDMONKEY (photos!)

When I was a little girl, my mom wanted to be a writer. She wrote short stories in the vein of her favorite television show, The Twilight Zone, and she did research on areas of historic interest in our hometown.

I would see her typing away on her old typewriter and watch in awe as she created piles and piles of papers, all part of a manuscript, being thrown into a box.

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My beautiful mother Victoria

What she was working on was her life story which she called WEEDMONKEY.

Weedmonkey is a Southern term for the word whore and this ugly word was being used to describe her mother, my grandmother, Maud.

My mother grew up during the Depression and was forced to live in coal mining camps throughout Appalachia. As a child, she was subjected to child molestation, the KKK, murder, homelessness, starvation and ridicule for being the daughter of the town whore.

MA, GERALD, JESSE AND MAUDMy uncle Gerald, my grandfather Jesse, my grandmother Maude and my mother Victoria (Ruby)

She grew up hating her mother who was taken away when she was nine years old and while she was gone, she and her brother were put into foster care, starved and abused.


My uncle Gerald and my mother Victoria (Ruby)

When her mother returned, she did not know her husband or her children and my mother could not understand why she had changed.

At 16, my mother made the decision to leave Kentucky and the only life she had ever known after discovering her prostitute mother was having an affair with the young boy my mother loved.

She grew up with hatred, resentment and shame for the woman she called Mom and it was not until her mother’s funeral, did she learn the horrible truth, the reason for her change and the reason why she became the town whore, a weedmonkey.

I knew this book meant a great deal to my mother. I also knew that she was afraid to do anything about it out of fear of being scorned by her family, most of whom were still living.

She put the book away many times only to talk it about again and I grew up feeling that Virgie, the name my mother gave the main character in the book, was my friend even though she was my own mother.

In 2005, my mother said she wanted to work on the book again and asked if I interview her once a day for at least an hour. This way her thoughts could be contained and she would have clear notes to look back on. I agreed and so it began.

Oftentimes, she would stop, cry and say no more. “I can’t do this, it’s too painful.”

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Red Creek, Kentucky after a flood

I gave her the time to reflect but urged her to continue. I stressed the importance of this book being brought to life although I could see the old wounds were still fresh and very raw.

Although a kind, loving and gentle woman, my mother carried a lot of pain in her heart.


My great grandmother Dicie, a full blooded Cherokee who brought my mother back to life when she was born dead in 1929. She was mother’s mentor. Her husband Peter and their children. My grandfather Jesse is the little one.

In 2006, my mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer and given three months to live. She was 77. We talked often about Weedmonkey in those last few months and I knew how much it meant to her to have it completed. Sadly, it was not meant to be.

As she lay dying, she asked me for a small favor. Would I please finish the book and write it for her. Although I was at a lost for words, I said yes.

She only asked that I do a few things: the book must be called Weedmonkey, the main character must be named Virgie Hopkins, and the cover must say Mama, Mother, Whore.

After her death, it took me a few years to even look at her pages. I was grief stricken beyond words and mourned not only the loss of my mother but also the death of her dream.

I finally decided it was time to do something with the book so I searched for her notes and her interview. However, in the confusion of her death, they had been misplaced.

I went to bed one night and asked for my mother’s heavenly guidance. Where are your notes? Your interview? If you want me to work on this book, I have to know where everything is!

That night I had a dream. I was standing in my mother’s kitchen, opening up the cupboard over her desk and the dream ended.

The next day I went to the cupboard over her desk and was met with two large pills of papers. I took them all out and went through them one by one and there at the very bottom of the pile was Weedmonkey.


My great grandmother Mallie Victoria and two of her children. I was given her name Victoria as my middle name. She and her husband were very wealthy and owned Ward’s Emporium in North Carolina.

However, this was not a book in completed form. It was typewritten pages, all with carbon paper, there were multiple versions of chapters, duplicates of the same pages, scribbled handwritten notes, papers that were torn and words scratched out. How in the world was I ever going to make any sense of this mess?

It took several months to sort it all out but I kept thinking how important it was for her to have her story told and I did it.

I got the book published and within a year, it was on the Amazon Bestseller list and went to #1. It ranked me into the Top 100 Authors on Amazon Memoirs and was being sold in local bookstores such as Turn The Page owned by famed romance novelist Nora Roberts. I have even had two book signings there!


So, you see, this is what this books means to me. I kept my promise to my mother as she lay dying and I hope I have made her proud.




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HAPPY NEW YEAR! My 2014 in Review!

Well, it’s that time of year again where we take a look back at our lives during the last twelve months.

A year is a long time however as I get older it seems to go by quicker. My mom was right.

This has been my year in review: 2014

In 2013, I left my job after eight years to pursue my dream of becoming a bestselling, full-time writer. I was scared but had been saying every year that “this was the year” and I had never done it. Year after year I watched as my dream kept getting farther and farther away from me.

Yes, I was afraid to leave my job, but I was more afraid of never seeing my dream come true.

So in December 2013, I did it.

In January, I was dedicated to becoming an author.

Proud Moments:

  • WEEDMONKEY became a bestseller on Amazon, stayed on that list for almost a year and is still selling.
  • I was ranked in the Top 100 Authors on Amazon Memoirs
  • My short story GUARDIAN ANGEL appeared in Woman’s World Magazine.
  • Had my second book signing at Turn The Page bookstore in Boonsboro.
  • Two articles about me and WEEDMONKEY appeared in The Frederick News Post and The Herald Mail.
  • Book DOWN CAME NOVEMBER was released
  • I started writing a new column for the newspaper called PEOPLE WORTH KNOWING.


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  • April we lost Jade
  • July we lost Harley
  • October my cousin Leslie passed away after a long battle with Lupus



I unplugged from five people this year and have not looked back. Although at one time, these people meant something to me and their contributions to my life are not overlooked, I simply outgrew them for one reason or another.

  • One was a woman I had known for about 15 years. Too much negativity and drama.
  • Another was a woman I was becoming friends with through Toastmasters but in fact, she was only using me to further her own career. User, false friend
  • Another was a woman who has been a part of my life since I was 14 years old. She was like a mother to me however instead of being happy for my success in life, she was bitter and jealous. Negativity, envy, drama
  • Another was a young man who had also been a part of my life for many years, since he was nine years old. I loved him like a son but could no longer tolerate his drama and chaotic life. I was no longer a part of that world yet I was still trying to help him. Drama, negativity, ungrateful
  • Another was an author and although I didn’t know him well, made a major mistake in our friendship when he insulted me after I had done everything to help him. Ungrateful

Once I pull the plug, that friendship dies and like any other death, I accept it and move on.

New Friendships:

  • Two orphaned baby raccoons came into our life in 2014. We bottle fed them and gave them grapes and cat food. Oh how we loved them! They were sweet, gentle and so loving and I would hold them in my arms like a baby. They would even sit on the woodpile and when I walked by and held out my hands, they would jump into my arms and kiss me. Sadly though, as quickly as they came into our lives, they left. We have no idea what happened to them or why they disappeared but I pray for their safety and return.
  • This summer we found a stray cat in the woods, took him in and named him Scottie. We never knew his story but he became a sweet and gentle housecat whom we love very much.
  • I met my editor Susan Hughes who edited WEEDMONKEY for me. What a kind, loving and generous woman! I am so glad that we have become friends!
  • We also became good friends with Amy and Chris from Ireland whom we met in Florida! While there we also become friends with another couple from Wales, Mill and Asha!



  • Steve and I really began to work on the renovations of house and got down to the meat and bones of the structure. The house, my childhood home, was built in 1800 and man, does it need work.
  • However I am grateful for the work that is being done, the new ideas being put into play and the love that Steve has given to this house that means so much to me.


  • October … Steve and I went to Florida and visited Universal Studios, Hollywood Studios, Disney World, Animal Kingdom, Harry Potter World and had a blast! It was the best vacation ever!
  • December … We went to New York City and made a dream come true for me! I got to eat pizza in Brooklyn and man oh man was it good! What a blast we had that day!


Bucket List:

Although I hate that term, it seems to fit when someone wants to do something in their life before they “kick they bucket” as they say.

  • Went to go to Hogwarts
  • Went to go to New York City, ate pizza in Brooklyn and went to a corner bakery in Brooklyn


We have more adventures planned for 2015 so stay tuned!

Thanks to everyone for their continued friendship and support! It means so much to me! ♥♥♥




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ENJOY LIFE NOW~It’s later than you think …

Here’s a depressing thought … We Are All Dying

Gee that sucks but how true that is. The moment we are born, we begin to die.

When we say someone is terminally ill and we suggest they make amends with friends and loved ones, why can’t we see that in ourselves?

We are all terminally ill and we must live life now! The time to be happy is now!

Don’t put off telling that person that you love them. Don’t wait to marry the love of your life. Don’t wait until the “right” time to have children, have them now and make the family that you always wanted.

If you wait until the right time, that time will never come.

My father was a gun dealer and in his shop he had a sign that read, “Enjoy life, it’s later than you think.” As a kid, I never understood that but isn’t that really true. I can remember going to sleep last night and I was 8 years old. How did I wake up and become 50?

I lost my mother back in 2006 and when I asked her on her deathbed if she had any regrets, she said, “Only one. I should have said yes, when I said no.”

I have thought about that comment every day for the past eight years.

So, at 50 (I’ll be 51 in March) I decided to make a list of everything I ever wanted to do and just do it!

I hate the term bucket list but I guess you could call it that. Why not? We are all going to “kick the bucket” one day.

Here are three things  I have always wanted to do and I did them this year!

1. Last year I quit my job and said I wanted to become a bestselling author and have WEEDMONKEY hit the top 100 books in Amazon Memoirs. Guess what? I did it this year and Weedmonkey was on the bestseller list all year and is still selling.

2. I have always wanted to go to Harry Potter world in Orlando, Florida. I wanted to visit Hogwarts and walk the halls of the wizard’s school. I wanted to visit Hollywood Studios, Universal Studios and go back to Disney World and Animal Kingdom. I hadn’t been there since I was 10 years old.

Guess what? In October, I made this wish come true. It was the most amazing trip I have ever been on and I thought wow, that was easy. What do I want to do next?

3. I have always wanted to go to New York City at Christmas, see the Christmas tree, eat the best pizza (in Brooklyn) and go to a corner bakery. As a child, I had only driven through the city with my parents on our way to see relatives in New England.

Guess what? I did that yesterday and it was the first time in my life that my feet actually touched the ground of New York City! It was amazing!


Next year, I have more plans and more dreams will be coming true.

What are you waiting for?

Cherish every moment right here and right now. Do things you have always wanted to do, go places, make a list and stick to it.

Please don’t wait until you are on your deathbed to make amends or to tell people that you love them. Love them now. Apologize now. Forgive them now. Do it now before it is too late. We are all dying.

Don’t wait until we are in the ground to realize that. Do it now while we are still above it.

When my mother was dying, she told me to never let anyone say that she had a long life for it wasn’t long enough.

Live now and be happy!

Let me know what you have always wanted to do and how you have made that dream come true. I’d love to hear from you! ♥


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